"Fall" Into Something Different 🍂

Here are 4 ideas for adding a 🔥connection to your Fall Dates if you're looking to bundle up 🍁 or get a little closer...😊

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Fall is here folks, and just because the weather might be cooling down, doesn’t mean it has to between you and your partner, spouse, or pal, or in your personal, intimate life. Let me guess-

Life’s been busy. I get it. AND you live your life on a schedule, which is PERFECT because now, you can add something fun to your calendar to break up the monotony-

PLAY and PLEASURE! 💫

Do you think Fall is romantic?

Here in Upstate SC, the leaves are starting to change, the sun is shining, and it’s warm enough during the day to appreciate the cool evenings. Have you been out on a date recently? It’s time to “fall” into some new ideas. Here are 3 Fall dates with some ideas to add just a little “spook” “spice” or “heat” to the mix.

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1. Build a Fire🔥

The element of fire represents transformation and renewal, as well as the energy of passion and creativity. It is associated with warmth, light, and power. When I think of the element of fire, I think of the feeling of sitting by a campfire, watching the flames dance, and feeling their heat on my skin. Plan a night out in the woods, warm up by a fire, share a delectable treat, and enjoy feeling present, grounded, protected, and connected. Perhaps you build a cozy fire indoors and cuddle up in some warm blankets while sharing a toasty beverage and some light, gentle massages. Notice the temperature, sounds, textures, sensations, and emotions throughout the entire experience.

2. Trick or Treat, Baby 🎃

Sorry, this one’s not for your next-door neighbors, unless of course you’re inviting guests! Which, personally, I fully endorse! When’s the last time YOU went trick or treating? What fun “tricks” might you have in your “bag” for your partner or spouse? You might even want to dress up. Get creative. You know their favorite candy (literally and figuratively- you/they may actually want some- candy.) We have fun here. 😊

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3. Enjoy a Scenic Drive AND…. Take a Detour…🚙

Why not enjoy the Fall or Halloween scenery? You don’t have to go far. Find some backroads or plan a route that will take you, so you feel distant from what you see most days (don’t take any familiar routes.) Find a view. One just for you. Maybe it’s one you premeditate, or it’s one you two, or all of you discover while you’re driving in a new and unfamiliar direction together. Allow yourself to “enjoy the ride.” Why not flirt while you drive and complement one another. Hold hands or talk about what you might like to do to one another when you get back home. Share your fantasies. Oh, you happened to stumble on the perfect spot. Why not pull over to enjoy it? This can be a great way to practice the art of enjoying the “ride,” not just a destination.

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4. Wash Off Together 💦🚿

All of this play, you two will certainly need to “wash the day off.” Showering with your partner or spouse can be intimate and sensual. Reminisce on all of the beautiful and fun moments you shared together that day to feel connected and desirous. Apply mindfulness to this ritual of bathing together. Notice the temperature of the water, the textures of your partner’s skin, the soap, and water, the sensation of the beads of water hitting your back, the aroma of the soaps and suds, and shampoo, and your partner’s natural pheromones. “Soak” it all up. Enjoy the experience.

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Conclusion

We make time for the things that matter to us. It’s easy to fall into predictable patterns of behavior and while it’s beautiful to have the same yearly routines and rituals around different seasons and holidays, it’s also fun to create new ones and celebrate the ways in which we and our relationships change. I hope one idea from this article inspired you to get creative and have some fun. I give you permission to fall into something different this “season” of your life.

I encourage you to center pleasure, play, and presence. Let me know how it goes!

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